Feeling like you are stuck in the same loop, arguing and
Do you feel that you are both missing what is most important to the other partner?
Does every discussion with your partner end up following the same unsatisfactory pattern?
Relationships are not difficult and they can be repaired.
People can be difficult. But they also can be coached, communication skills can be learned, and conflict can be resolved when you have the therapist with your in the room.
The cold spiral of mutual withdrawal can be warmed and reversed, and you can gain the opportunity to grow closer and happier.
Starting with basic skills, learning how to listen to your partner without getting defensive and how to become win-win team players in a progressive, goal-oriented team will definitely be a solution.
You can get assistance with learning how to hold conversations constructively, learning deeply about each other’s needs, and understanding your and your’s partner vulnerability, and finding an ally instead of an opponent.
You can learn to transform criticism into the constructive dialog, identifying solutions and putting your effort into action.
You will be able to identify how you both can be happier in your relationship.
I would be happy to assist you in this journey.
I invite you to start to identify ways you and your spouse can get unstuck from the old, ineffective communication pattern and develop a mutual benefited relationship.
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